Sometimes its not always about the sexual side of the relationship, sometimes you just want to WOW him and sweep him off his feet so he's yours and only yours!!
Therefore lemme break it down for you: If you want to turn your man to jelly, save the sappy stuff and keep the passion plays simple. Our definition of romance is TOTALLY different than yours. It does not include poetry or long-stemmed roses!!! Nothing says "I love you" to a man like an unexpected six-pack of beer (dos equis ;) for me thank you!). We're simple and easy. Try this:
Free Him from Family
Bonding with your folks is important. We get that. But once we're down with Dad, don't make us suffer through every family function. If you excuse your guy from attending a family affair every now and then (no guilt trips allowed), he'll worship you for weeks afterward. If you don't he'll end up feeling like "Having weekly Sunday dinners with my girlfriend and her whole family has started to make me feel resentful. I wind up talking politics with her uncle when all I want is to be home, sprawled out on my own couch."
Indulge with Him
The old saying holds true: The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. But unlike you, we're not looking to be wined and dined at some fancy-ass restaurant with entrées we can't pronounce. Nope, we just want to get our eat on with you. I get so turned off when a woman is so rigid about her diet that she never sways from her order of grilled chicken over salad. There's nothing more endearing than a chick who throws caution to the wind once in a while and goes for a burger with cheese.
Offer a Challenge
Guys get juiced over a little friendly competition. But facing off with your man doesn't require major athletic skills. Take us on in bowling, cards, or even a video game and we're bound to get hot and bothered. I had a girlfriend who invited me to play darts with her every time we entered a bar, she'd bet me things like loser opens the winner's car door for a week. The challenge fueled me. It was like foreplay. Any woman who beats us is guaranteed a rematch so it keeps intrigue and competition alive
October 19, 2011
October 16, 2011
Had to share this one!!!
Seven Signs he wants to have sex!!!!!
1. He gets an "eye erection"
2. He hooks his thumb in his belt loops
.....you can take a look at the rest for yourself
Personally, four and seven are my favorites!
Decode His Emotions
While it's great that guys are trying to communicate their feelings, you may not realize what he's trying to say with one of these things.
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:-) HAPPY FACE: "I know you want me to say something nice, so I'm sticking this stupid smiley face here."
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;-) WINKING FACE: "I just made a joke. Did you get it? Please text back LOL, because my ego is on the line."
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:-* KISSING FACE: "I want to jump your bones, but I'm not okay with sexting. Oh...and I'm cheesy."
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:-p TONGUE-STICKING OUT FACE: "In spite of the the face that I'm a grown man, I actually have the emotional maturity of a 12 year-old
3 Ways to Read His Mind
I recently had a great conversation with a buddy of mine who just so happens to be a GREAT professional poker player (he has taken my $$$ plenty of times) and it got me to thinking...can poker tendencies and men relate??? And I say yes...this is what we came up with
1. He literally pushes up his sleeves. This gesture at the poker table means a guy is prepping to take a big risk. If your guy does this right before a convo, he's ready to take a gamble with you as well. It could be something big, like meeting the parents, or something small, like suggesting you stash a hair dryer at his place ;)
2. You notice his Adam's apple moving. When a guy's dealt hand is bad he'll gulp because he's anxious. If you catch him doing this, its a sign he's nervous about what he's going to say, whether it's good (like those three little words) or not so great (he's canceling a date).
3. He keeps his hands busy. A man who's sitting on a royal flush doesn't want to give away his secret, so he'll toy with something on the table to create a diversion. If he's fiddling with things at dinner, he is probably excited about something--like a job promotion or a romantic getaway he's planned--and is waiting to drop the news
1. He literally pushes up his sleeves. This gesture at the poker table means a guy is prepping to take a big risk. If your guy does this right before a convo, he's ready to take a gamble with you as well. It could be something big, like meeting the parents, or something small, like suggesting you stash a hair dryer at his place ;)
2. You notice his Adam's apple moving. When a guy's dealt hand is bad he'll gulp because he's anxious. If you catch him doing this, its a sign he's nervous about what he's going to say, whether it's good (like those three little words) or not so great (he's canceling a date).
3. He keeps his hands busy. A man who's sitting on a royal flush doesn't want to give away his secret, so he'll toy with something on the table to create a diversion. If he's fiddling with things at dinner, he is probably excited about something--like a job promotion or a romantic getaway he's planned--and is waiting to drop the news
Its been a while!!
I've been a little under the weather and not able to keep my posts updated but....I'M BAAACCKK!! and I promise to make it up. xoxox
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